Have you ever thought about casting a godly vision for your marriage? Perhaps you’ve never even heard of the term before, and in that case – don’t worry! This post will explain what it means to cast a Godly vision for your marriage and how to do it! Where does the principle of vision castingContinue Reading
Being Grounded in Christ for a Stronger Marriage
I believe there is only one secret to a fulfilling marriage, and it is the same as that of a fulfilling life. A Foundation Built on Jesus Christ A marriage doesn't have to be made up of the smartest, prettiest (or most handsome), or most talented people. There doesn't have to be a lot of money or material things. The real secret to marriage is something that can't be bought. Something that can't be earned. Grace. Walking hand in hand with Continue Reading
A Prayer for Marriage
The power of prayer is undeniable for those who have the faith to believe what they are asking God for. I am thankful to have learned the truth of Matthew 18:19 early on in my walk with Jesus: Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. My husband and I first met at a campus Bible study during our undergraduate studies in 1998. The first time we actually spoke to Continue Reading
When Being Selfish In Marriage Is a Good Thing
When Being Selfish In Marriage Is a Good Thing As I'm writing this article, sitting in Starbucks, drinking my Venti Americano and listening to awful jazz music playing overhead, I have officially been married 14 years, 2 months, 3 days, 2 hours and 42 minutes. I'm just a couple years away from having been married almost half my life. I certainly have loved my husband for more years than I haven't. Don’t get me wrong. I don't think that makes me Continue Reading
On Days Like This
On Days Like This 12:45 a.m. -- Hubby enters the bedroom to come to bed. I was awake for some reason, although I had been asleep. I think I had gotten up to turn the lights off, because I had fallen asleep unintentionally. I watch him for a minute, fidgeting with items on his nightstand. His face is far from relaxed. His body is tense. His movements are not fluid. Me: Are you okay? Hubby: mumbles something I can't hear Me: Are you Continue Reading
The Importance of Forgiveness: Lessons Learned From My Divorce
When I got married I never imagined that I would find myself divorced with two boys to take care of on my own. I don't like to forgive. I can hold a grudge like my life depends on it. It was probably the hardest thing for me to do when my marriage fell apart and I went through my divorce. I didn't want to forgive. I felt like I was justified in my anger and bitterness. He'd hurt me, left our boys without a father, and never apologized! He didn't Continue Reading